Renewing Relationships · Coparenting Coaching

The old pattern doesn't have to run the show.

Nervous-system-informed coaching for coparents who are done fighting the same fight — and ready to build something steadier for their kids.

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Sound familiar?

Three patterns that keep good coparents stuck in conflict

Reactivity on repeat

The same argument, different day — because the nervous system gets activated before the words even land.

Communication that backfires

Messages meant to protect the kids end up escalating things instead, no matter how carefully they're worded.

Co-parenting on autopilot

Decisions get made from old hurt, not from what's actually best for the child in front of you.

About Me

Hi, I'm Debbie

Debbie Rasmussen

I've spent 25 years as a clinician, and these days I focus on one thing: helping coparents find steadier ground after separation or divorce.

My work draws on the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and PACT — frameworks built on decades of research into how people regulate, communicate, and stay connected even when a relationship has changed shape.

I'm not here to referee old conflicts. I'm here to help you build a calmer, more predictable way of coparenting — one that actually holds up under pressure.

— Debbie

"I don't need my coparent to change. I need to stop being at the mercy of the old pattern."
Ways to work together

Three paths, one goal: steadier coparenting

Individual Sessions

$225 / session

One-on-one coaching for the specific conflict or transition you're navigating right now. Package discounts available.

  • Built entirely around your needs, not a fixed curriculum
  • Your goals are established together in the first session
  • Sessions adapt as your situation changes
Book a Session — $225

The Collective

$1,500 / 8 weeks

A small-group program for coparents ready to build lasting regulation and communication skills together.

  • 8 video lessons, released one per week
  • Weekly live Q&A with hotseat coaching
  • Companion workbook
  • Two individual coaching sessions
Enroll — $1,500

12-Week Intensive

$3,000 / 12 weeks

Deeper, individualized work for complex or high-conflict coparenting situations that need more time and structure.

  • Emotional regulation training
  • Script library for real conversations
  • Parenting plan development
Enroll — $3,000

Ready to find your footing?

Book a free consult to talk through what's going on and find the right starting point.

Book a free consult

Or email debbie@renewingrelationshipscoach.com

Renewing Relationships offers coaching services grounded in the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and PACT frameworks. Coaching is not a substitute for therapy, legal advice, or crisis mental health services.